Tag: confidence
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Discouragement Deflection
“Congratulations” Says everyone else in my life. You say: “Are you sure you’re qualified?” instead. I assure you: I’m enough. -
Being “Polished” Does Not Mean Being “Traditional”
Fashion, whether people want to admit it or not, defines one’s identity. And I have always been keen to define my identity through clothes since I was young. -
What It Means To Be Kind To Myself
I am on a mission to learn how to be more kind to myself. It isn’t about giving in to junk food or going out shopping. Treats are necessary, but what I want to work on is rewarding myself in ways that don’t cost a lot of money, or come at the cost of my ... -
Dear Dad, I Deserve Better
I want to thank you for everything. I should say thank you, shouldn’t I? Without you, I would never have learned how to overlook so much. You taught me a lot. Don’t rely on others – they won’t be there in the end. Only let people close enough to feel like they know me, but don’t ... -
Temp Or Adventure?
The temp or temporary position I entered into for twelve weeks this past summer, has recently ended. What began as an immediate fix to an unexpected loss of income, turned out to be an amazing personal and occupational experience. In June, my family’s world changed suddenly, fear and chaos ensued. Panic and loss of sleep ... -
5 Self-Love Exercises For Everyone This Valentine’s Day
Valentine’s Day is traditionally a day where we celebrate our loved ones. We buy chocolates and sentimental gifts for our significant others and bask in the warm glow of affection we have for them. It’s a day of romance, of intimacy, a day to deepen our connection to each other. However, something we rarely focus ...