We’re ass-deep in bathroom confusion: Gender has this issue twisted all wrong. Some folks are worrying about trans women, But I’ve been thinking of trans men all along.  They’re the ones watching for landmines As they enter the predator’s den; People who think of “grape” as they shit Seem to flock to the sign that reads “men.”  I’ll invite trans folks on my potty ...

“There is more inclusion everywhere now. People aren’t less awkward about it. You must be happy.” “It is great. I don’t want to feel accepted though. I want to feel respected.” Can you relate to this? Do you ever feel you haven’t received full social acceptance? Since January 20th is International Day of Acceptance, I want ...

I will never forget the moment I realized being nice is cooler than being popular. “Our 2012 Prom Queen is…. Brooke Settoon!” “What? There is no way…” There are many things I don’t remember about grade school, but I still can recall the times where I desperately wanted to fit in. I believed popularity was ...