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    How does it feel to live in the shadow of a ghost, a memory, a period that has long since past?  How does it feel to know that you can never measure up and that whatever you do would always be considered second best?  How does it feel to know you’ll never be good enough, ...
  • Computer screen showing programming codes with personal skills written within the lines of the code, including creativity, learning, and communication.
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    Specializing in a field and staying in the same role for 10-plus years used to be impressive and admirable. Things have changed in the job market, with increased competition and saturation making it hard to stand out. Now there’s something important to consider, instead of focusing on a single specialization or aiming for one position ...
  • White, pink, and green watercolor floral painting on a table with paintbrushes and paint.
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    Remember when hobbies weren’t side hustles? We wouldn’t think about profiting from what we love doing in our spare time. Now, our minds blink with inspiration about how to monetize our pet projects. Making money through activities you enjoy adds pressure when tied to mastery. It takes away from the joy of pursuing an activity ...
  • Gardening, growth, weeds
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    I’ve always had an issue with comparing myself to other people. I think it comes from the fact that I always wanted to either be at the same level as my siblings or better than them. I wanted to be talented like them. One would think that two decades later I would realize that people ...