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My Foolproof Method For Blissfully Surviving The Holiday Chaos

By Dawn Marie Beauchamp
December 6, 2021
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The days from the fourth Thursday of November until the completion of the first 24 hours of the new year are my favorite, with their excitement, energy, and beautiful, chaotic madness. Yes, even the chaos is beautiful, complete with delicious food and beautiful twinkling lights. Surviving the holidays takes a little planning, some decision-making skills, and practice in the art of mindfulness. The following method is my foolproof survival guide to a blissful holiday season.

Choose Your Favorite Thing

It is a fact one person can not do everything pictured on a holiday card. Fact-check me if you like, but there are only 24 hours in a day, and we all need to sleep, eat, work, and carry on our daily lives in addition to the holiday chaos. To survive in a blissful state, full of holiday cheer, choose your favorite things and let go of the rest. The choice may be to ditch the baking and spend more time decorating. It may look like baking up a storm, but ordering dinner catered. My favorite option is to touch on all the categories but choose my favorite thing in each. I bake cookies, but I choose 2-3 kinds, not the dozen staring at me in my recipe box. Remember, you are not a machine, do the things that make you happy, and the rest can fall off the truck somewhere else.

Write a List and Check it Twice

For example, my life is full of things I need to accomplish now and for the holidays. It can be a tad bit overwhelming, to say the least. My solution is the magic of list writing. Gift buying – write it down! Decorating – devise a plan. Baking – make a list of items to prepare and then a grocery list to go with it. Without my holiday lists, I would be lost, crying in the corner, wondering if all my children have gifts under the tree. Do not force your brain to work on overdrive. Make a list you can check and recheck.

Tradition Can Be Your Best Friend

Practice makes perfect. A tradition is a form of practice. Therefore the routine of following the same traditions every year makes them second nature over time. What may take three hours to complete year one will take half that time by year five. My holidays as a child were full of traditions. My mom and aunts kept menus, locations, and times all the same from year to year. As years pass, making things happen becomes simpler because it has been practiced to the point of perfection. As a child, it was comforting to know what to expect. It kept the excitement of the holidays from morphing into anxiety. Tradition is a two-for-one, easy for the preparer and comforting for the attendees. Win. Win.

Present Over Perfect

The most important step in my foolproof method for a blissful holiday is to focus on being present over being perfect. The decorations, gifts, food, and celebration are all immensely important to me. I want to make the holidays magical for my children, my husband, my family. The truth is, my family will be happier with a present, calm Dawn over a tired, stressed, and tense Dawn. The holiday season is about celebration, joy, happiness, gratefulness, thankfulness; the list goes on and on. None of these emotions require perfectly wrapped presents, a magical Christmas castle, or a 27-course meal. Love your family well, and the rest is good enough, however it turns out.

Ready, Set, Enjoy!

As we continue our journey through the holiday season, take time to enjoy the process and the fanfare. Be mindful of the little things that bring you joy over the season. I love white Christmas lights and giggling, smiling kiddos, good food, and close family and friends. Focusing my attention on the things I love makes the chaos and the lists seem secondary and less stressful. From my family to yours – Happy Holidays and a Blessed and Happy New Year.

Photo by Irina Iriser from Pexels

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Dawn Marie Beauchamp

Dawn Marie Beauchamp is a wife and mother of three glorious children living in the great state of Michigan. She can be found at Controlled Chaos: Embrace the Adventure of the Everyday blogging about faith, family, food and everything in between. Dawn and her husband run a growing electrical company and are avid DIY-ers. In their spare time, Dawn and family love to spend time outdoors - boating, fishing, hiking, hunting, and snowmobiling.

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3 comments

  1. Karen 7 December, 2021 at 10:55 Reply

    I really like what you say as mother’s and grandmother’s we want everything perfect and that is way too much stress to put on ourselves. I have learned finally to just take one day at a time and enjoy the time you have with family and friends. I enjoy your writings. Merry Christmas and have a Blessed New Year!

  2. Sara Kehler 7 December, 2021 at 22:28 Reply

    I love your “choose your favourite thing “ tip. Takes so much pressure off!

    • Dawn Marie Beauchamp 8 December, 2021 at 11:06 Reply

      Right! And it is so much fun to focus on your favorite. I’d rather have fun than drudge my way through the whole list.

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