Coffee House Writers

Main Menu

  • Home
  • Article Categories
    • Fiction
      • Action & Adventure
      • Fantasy
      • Historical Fiction
      • Horror
      • Mystery
      • Romance
      • Science Fiction
      • Speculative Fiction
      • Suspense & Thrillers
      • Westerns
      • Women’s Fiction
      • Women Sleuths
    • Nonfiction
      • Astrology & Tarot
      • Biographies
      • Business
      • Creativity
      • Creative Nonfiction
      • Cooking, Food & Drink
      • Culture
      • Current Affairs & Politics
      • Design, Fashion & Style
      • Entertainment
      • Environment
      • Health & Wellness
      • History
      • Home & Garden
      • Lifestyle
      • Media
      • Memoir & Autobiographies
      • Narrative
      • Paranormal
      • Parenting & Family
      • Reviews
      • Science & Technology
      • Self-Help & Relationships
      • Spiritual & Religious
      • Sports
      • Travel
      • True Crime
    • Poetry
      • Acrostic
  • About Us
    • Our Story
    • Our Founder
  • Meet Our Admin
    • Chief Editors
    • Editors
  • Testimonials
  • Apply
  • Login

logo

Coffee House Writers

  • Home
  • Article Categories
    • Fiction
      • Action & Adventure
      • Fantasy
      • Historical Fiction
      • Horror
      • Mystery
      • Romance
      • Science Fiction
      • Speculative Fiction
      • Suspense & Thrillers
      • Westerns
      • Women’s Fiction
      • Women Sleuths
    • Nonfiction
      • Astrology & Tarot
      • Biographies
      • Business
      • Creativity
      • Creative Nonfiction
      • Cooking, Food & Drink
      • Culture
      • Current Affairs & Politics
      • Design, Fashion & Style
      • Entertainment
      • Environment
      • Health & Wellness
      • History
      • Home & Garden
      • Lifestyle
      • Media
      • Memoir & Autobiographies
      • Narrative
      • Paranormal
      • Parenting & Family
      • Reviews
      • Science & Technology
      • Self-Help & Relationships
      • Spiritual & Religious
      • Sports
      • Travel
      • True Crime
    • Poetry
      • Acrostic
  • About Us
    • Our Story
    • Our Founder
  • Meet Our Admin
    • Chief Editors
    • Editors
  • Testimonials
  • Apply
  • Login
  • The Kindness of a Stranger

  • In Deep Water: Chapter 22

  • Sorry

  • My Shadow Remains

  • Waning Moon

  • Relentless

  • Cold, Hard Facts

  • The Rice Farmer and Ox

  • Sour Love

  • My Heart Beats for You

  • Out Tonight

  • The Invitation: Part 1

  • In Deep Water: Chapter 21

  • Dusty Photos

  • Redemption

  • Mama Knows Best – Chapter 10

  • Today’s Toil

  • The Island Flamingo: Chapter 44

  • Comparison is a Thief of Joy

  • In Deep Water: Chapter 20

Parenting & FamilyNonfiction
Home›Nonfiction›Parenting & Family›Walk With Purpose

Walk With Purpose

By Lan Mai
January 20, 2025
141
0
Share:
Two sets of arms picking nuts off a ground covered with nuts.
Coffee House Writers / Lan Mai

Little humans are almost like pets. They get antsy when I coop them up too long under a roof. Moreso when visiting the grandparents’ house for the holidays because it is a new environment, they don’t have their comfort toys, and routine is thrown out the window during holiday vacations. I must take them on excursions outside. If I say to them, “Let’s go on a walk,” they reply with, “That’s boring,” with big sighs and exacerbation.

“Who wants to go find some acorns to feed the squirrels?” This question is met with extreme excitement and joy. Sweaters and shoes are thrown on before I am off the couch.

It makes no difference to them that the nuts they gather are not acorns. The chipmunks are not going to eat out of their hands like they desire. I also see my kids running away so fast if a squirrel comes up to them. But they don’t know that. I don’t need them to know that.

They are going outside for their walk. It is all about perspective. Walking is boring, but gathering seeds and feeding animals is fun.

The journey does not end after they complete collecting the feed. They decide to create a path of acorns leading up to the front door so that the animals can come inside the house. The little ones also leave a large pile of nuts so that the creatures will not go hungry. Every day, they check and see if the acorns are still there.

The youngsters start off thinking walks are lousy but now have the motivation to gather more food and create a home for woodland furries.

I enjoy seeing my tots use their creativity, and I encourage them as much as possible. If I tell them that it is dangerous to have critters in our home, they can dismiss the idea entirely. Instead, I explain to them that squirrels within our walls can eat all of our food and decorations, so if an animal does come inside, we have to make a cage for it, and then it will be sad because it has no friends. After thoughtful consideration, my kids decide that a better idea is to make a habitat for the critter in the backyard where it can come and go. It can stay warm and still be able to play with its friends.

It sounds ridiculous, but I want the kids to get some fresh air, have fun, use their imaginations, get along with each other, and not get on my nerves. Wow, that sure is asking a lot. This journey with the squirrels successfully checks all those boxes.

So many tasks with children can be boring. With inspiration, these tasks change into much more than that. Kids have a limitless amount of imagination if we just allow it to flourish. Sometimes, my son does not want to take a shower, but he enjoys giving his favorite transformer a bath and playing in the tub with his figure. Neither of my rascals wants to pick up the floor at the end of the day, but if the floor is lava, then they save their toys so fast.

I am confident the next time we go to Texas to visit the grandparents, that my littles will be looking forward to saying “hi” to all their creature friends in the trees and checking on their supply of nuts.


Editor: Claudia Cramer


 

TagslifeKidsopinion pieceAdvice and How-Tochild guidance
Previous Article

In Deep Water: Chapter 13

Next Article

The New Year’s Call

0
Shares
  • 0
  • +
  • 0
  • 0

Lan Mai

Lan is a woman of many talents! Nurse, Health and Life Coach, Educator, Writer, Mom, Military Spouse, and Amazing Human Being.She is a learner, community builder, traveler, and reader. She is creative, resourceful, adaptable, and resilient.Lan’s ultimate goal is to leave this world better than when she entered it. She wants to share her journey to inspire others to live their dreams.She is counting down until her spouse retires from the military in 3 years and 2 months. Then her family gets to start their worldwide adventures and travel.

Related articles More from author

  • Nurse roles in healthcare. Three healthcare workers in a row. One covering ears, one covering eyes, and one covering mouth.
    Health & WellnessNonfiction

    Village of Nurses

    October 14, 2024
    By Lan Mai
  • Black brick background with neon lettering that reads, this is the sign you've been looking for.
    NonfictionNarrative

    The Kindness of a Stranger

    June 16, 2025
    By Jaclyn Weber-Hill
  • Four fresh onions on a vintage kitchen table with a milk can, jar, spoon, knife, and cookbooks
    FictionHistorical FictionWomen's Fiction

    Roasted Onions

    February 3, 2025
    By Adriana Philips
  • sunset, mountains, clouds
    CreativityEnvironmentParenting & FamilySelf-Help & RelationshipsFictionTravelCulture

    The Lost One – Part Two

    May 18, 2020
    By Xander S. Lee
  • Droplets on a spider's web precious moments
    TravelCreativityEnvironmentPoetryHealth & WellnessMemoir & Autobiographies

    Precious Moments Last, but a Moment

    June 6, 2022
    By Ritu Anand
  • Parenting & FamilyMemoir & AutobiographiesEntertainmentEnvironmentLifestyleCultureMedia

    The Ending Is The Most Important

    September 14, 2020
    By Stephanie Wyatt

Leave a reply Cancel reply

You may be interested

  • Starlight
    Self-Help & RelationshipsPoetryEntertainmentLifestyleCultureCreativityParenting & Family

    A Light Among The Void

  • Gene & Millie at the White Swan
    Parenting & FamilyMemoir & AutobiographiesNonfiction

    Ma Millie-3

  • Chicago
    CreativityParenting & FamilySelf-Help & RelationshipsFictionMemoir & AutobiographiesHome & GardenEntertainment

    Carry On My Wayward Daughter, Part One

Timeline

  • June 16, 2025

    The Kindness of a Stranger

  • June 16, 2025

    In Deep Water: Chapter 22

  • June 16, 2025

    Sorry

  • June 16, 2025

    My Shadow Remains

  • June 16, 2025

    Waning Moon

Latest Comments

  • Ivor R Steven
    on
    May 17, 2025
    Hi Violet, thank you for visiting my poem here at Coffee House Writers magazine . I ...

    Half

  • violet
    on
    May 13, 2025
    Sometimes it doesn't matter as long as you are all the way there. This was so ...

    Half

  • LC Ahl (Lucy)
    on
    May 13, 2025
    Thank you for sharing his obit. You're right, they did make him out to be a ...

    The Coldest Case

  • Mark
    on
    May 12, 2025
    https://www.schniderfuneralhome.com/obituaries/alan-reavleyIs this right?We hear so often these days about DNA bringing historic justice. Sad it didn’t ...

    The Coldest Case

  • LC Ahl (Lucy)
    on
    May 12, 2025
    Mark, Thanks for this info. I'd love to read his obit. I was working at KGPR when ...

    The Coldest Case

About us

  • coffeehousewriters3@gmail.com

Donate to Coffee House Writers

Coindrop.to me

Follow us

© Copyright 2018-2025 Coffee House Writers. All Rights Reserved. Unauthorized use and/or duplication of this material without express and written permission from this site’s administrator and owner is strictly prohibited. Privacy Policy · Disclaimer